Hi guys,

With due disrespect, derision and disregard to any and every difference between you and me…I am Nandu and pay the highest honour/reverence to you my readers.

I had created my blog some 3-4 years back. I did write some articles, reconsidered them, rewrote them and in the process realised that I hadn’t matured enough. Hence, did not publish or post them. My opinion was biased, self-centred and did not give a broad perspective to the situation.

Over these years I have kind of matured a bit I guess…I don’t follow any religion except humanity. In fact, I mock the very concept of religion. It is like a chain, a classification that prevents you from being a part of the bigger picture. And I want to be an international citizen, period.

Last year in the middle of the closing month we all got to hear some terrible news which ruined our Christmas and the New Year celebrations as well. Although we are more than halfway through the next year the problem has still stuck to us like chewing gum. I think the problem is deep rooted now.

One of my sisters was raped on 16^th Dec 2012…and the other on 22^nd August and didn’t we all just celebrate Rakshabandhan on the 21^st of this month. Hardly one day post we get to hear this shocking news. Did all the brotherly feelings dissipate overnight? Why do we even celebrate Rakshabandhan? What’s the use of tying a stupid vow of protection around your wrist.*Whateveryournameis*, you bloody juvenile, immature beast! Answer me… did you hold her with your Rakhi tied wrist? And can there be a bigger shame than this?

Sorry to leave this midway…but between these 2 incidents I had read some news about some ministers watching porn in Parliament and then in some State Legislative House as well…I won’t like to highlight it because yes I am afraid of them(and so is Mr. Chetan Bhagat)…but tell me seriously…is watching porn so very important that even when country’s or a particular state’s matters are being discussed you are so not interested…my dear friends why do you even sit there…we definitely don’t need you…

Going on…I don’t need to discuss these problems…you can very well read about them in news or the net just like I did. What I want from you all is to come up with the reason WHY IS THIS HAPPENING and the solution to correct it…HOW IT CAN BE STOPPED…

I know 1 thing for sure that my fellow brothers are not that ruthless that they’ll exploit women and the country at large…where is the mistake? What’s amiss?

Is it your/our sexual needs?

In my 5th semester of college I read about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs…Just scroll down below and have a quick look…

It does make sense…

Sex as a subject or topic is tacitly taboo in our society. Ok I know we can’t discuss it with our parents…but why do we feel shy discussing it with our cousins or siblings who are mature enough to talk about it…

Diverting totally from the topic, let us have a look at this development. We Indians are known to be the writers of Kama Sutra…we had practised it; we were the experts at it. But what happened in the interim…they saw they learned they conquered??? Yes those naughtyamericans! I don’t think so…if we were best at this (at some point of time) why not let our women be exploited this way rather than being raped for free…and mercilessly…but NO! Our porn-watching-sexually-deprived government won’t allow it…although many of them may illicitly involve in post-meeting debauchery. (No wonder why they have a prolonged potency.)

One of my close friends pointed out to the fact that if prostitution is legalised then almost every 3^rd women would resort to it…making the State practically a brothel. Honestly I don’t think so…I maybe wrong…

But on the other side there may be incidents of human trafficking akin to Estonia and other north European nations…because we have both the mafia and the inadequate security to breed such a crime…and I forgot foreign tourists too! They already have to suffer through a lot of groping and staring…I guess this is the only thing missing to make India a complete dystopia, a no women’s land…YEY! Let’s do it…;)

I haven’t travelled to many places or many cities but enough to observe the fact that many orphaned girls are exploited not once but throughout their lives for sexual gratification. If they get money for being eaten (sexually exploited) at least they would also get a chance to feed on something…I mean FOOD…

Half of my college mates who are graduates now…and have the busiest of schedules talk about women and sex and how to get them…the remaining time that is 12-15 hours they are either coding at Twitter, Facebook, Amazon and the likes or spending hours at making presentations at the IIMs…and some lesser beings like me are trying to identify what business to open in India…but still we are all very busy…including me and you (I know it’s very funny…ha ha ha ha)…

I don’t know what’s happening on the other gender’s side…my guess it’s roughly the same story…

With so much of stress and neck-breaking work…we definitely do get exhausted…

From nursery to class 12^th to competitive exams to college to job, one of our needs gets murdered. Scroll upwards and see the 3^rd,4^th and 5^th level of the table. Yes you got it right!…seem the odd ones out don’t they…

Thanks for going through my first post, if you liked it please post a question/answer/thought or personal experience (relevant to topic please…:P). Just to get things started I am posting my own.  

QUESTION-

At the age of 4 I learned cycling at 10 swimming at 11 table tennis at 18 mind mapping at 19 drums at 20 skiing and the list goes on…but throughout my teenage I always had one doubt. What’s the ideal age to have sex…so that it doesn’t become a sort of great mystery to me…or its curiosity doesn’t infect me like a disease…all of us want to do something that the others have done or experienced…why should we be left out?